In this episode of Stress-Free IEP®, Frances Shefter speaks with Melissa Schulz, a Parenting Coach who helps you yell less and smile more! Melissa is a mom of three with a Master’s in Counseling and over 20 years of experience.
Episode Summary:
Introduction:
Welcome to another episode of “Stress-Free IEP®,” hosted by Frances Shefter, where we interview people to educate families on how to help to support their neurodiverse children. Today, we’re joined by Melissa Schulz, a seasoned parenting coach with over two decades of experience, who shares her expertise on nurturing effective behavior in children.
Meet Melissa Schulz: From Behavior Analyst to Parenting Coach
Melissa Schulz brings a rich background as a Board-Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) to the parenting realm. Her journey in behavior analysis has equipped her with strategies to foster positive behavior changes, making parenting less about yelling and more about smiling. She discusses her transition from working directly with children to empowering parents through tailored coaching sessions.
The Role of Parenting in Behavior Modification
Melissa emphasizes the importance of parents in the behavior management process. She notes that while modifying children’s behavior is crucial, the transformation begins with the parents. Understanding and adapting parental behavior is key to creating a nurturing environment that promotes positive behavior in children.
Challenges in Parenting: Understanding and Addressing Behavior
The discussion delves into the common challenges parents face, such as managing children with neurodiverse conditions like ADHD and autism. Melissa points out the increased prevalence of these diagnoses and the need for specialized strategies to manage the accompanying behaviors.
Social Media and Parenting Perceptions
Melissa touches on the impact of social media on parenting. She highlights how curated perfection on social media platforms can skew perceptions of parenting, making everyday challenges feel isolating and unique, despite their commonality.
Strategies for Effective Parenting
The conversation covers practical strategies for parents. Melissa advocates for understanding the underlying causes of behaviors rather than just addressing the symptoms. She offers insights into creating a supportive and understanding environment that acknowledges and accommodates the individual needs of each child.
Conclusion: Empowerment Through Understanding
The episode wraps up with an empowering message about the importance of continued learning and adaptation in parenting. Melissa encourages parents to seek support and resources to better understand and respond to their children’s needs, reinforcing that effective parenting is a learned skill enhanced by education and support.
Frances Shefter is an Education Attorney and Advocate who is committed to helping her clients have a Stress-Free IEP® experience. In each podcast, Frances interviews inspiring people to share information, educate you, empower you and help you get the knowledge you need.
Empowerment Through Understanding with Parenting Coach, Melissa Schulz
Stress-Free IEP® with Frances Shefter, Episode 71
In this episode of Stress-Free IEP®, Frances Shefter speaks with Melissa Schulz, a Parenting Coach who helps you yell less and smile more! Melissa is a mom of three with a Master’s in Counseling and over 20 years of experience.
Episode Summary:
Introduction:
Welcome to another episode of “Stress-Free IEP®,” hosted by Frances Shefter, where we interview people to educate families on how to help to support their neurodiverse children. Today, we’re joined by Melissa Schulz, a seasoned parenting coach with over two decades of experience, who shares her expertise on nurturing effective behavior in children.
Meet Melissa Schulz: From Behavior Analyst to Parenting Coach
Melissa Schulz brings a rich background as a Board-Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) to the parenting realm. Her journey in behavior analysis has equipped her with strategies to foster positive behavior changes, making parenting less about yelling and more about smiling. She discusses her transition from working directly with children to empowering parents through tailored coaching sessions.
The Role of Parenting in Behavior Modification
Melissa emphasizes the importance of parents in the behavior management process. She notes that while modifying children’s behavior is crucial, the transformation begins with the parents. Understanding and adapting parental behavior is key to creating a nurturing environment that promotes positive behavior in children.
Challenges in Parenting: Understanding and Addressing Behavior
The discussion delves into the common challenges parents face, such as managing children with neurodiverse conditions like ADHD and autism. Melissa points out the increased prevalence of these diagnoses and the need for specialized strategies to manage the accompanying behaviors.
Social Media and Parenting Perceptions
Melissa touches on the impact of social media on parenting. She highlights how curated perfection on social media platforms can skew perceptions of parenting, making everyday challenges feel isolating and unique, despite their commonality.
Strategies for Effective Parenting
The conversation covers practical strategies for parents. Melissa advocates for understanding the underlying causes of behaviors rather than just addressing the symptoms. She offers insights into creating a supportive and understanding environment that acknowledges and accommodates the individual needs of each child.
Conclusion: Empowerment Through Understanding
The episode wraps up with an empowering message about the importance of continued learning and adaptation in parenting. Melissa encourages parents to seek support and resources to better understand and respond to their children’s needs, reinforcing that effective parenting is a learned skill enhanced by education and support.
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Check a related Podcast/blog here: Navigating Parenting for Neurodivergent Children: Insights from Jen Dryer
For a short video about parenting in special education click here: Frances Shefter: Help Your Child by Helping Yourself! Be the Best ‘YOU’!
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